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THE IMPORTANCE OF INFORMATION SHARING

Friday, September 3rd, 2010

As I have mentioned previously, I mediate ‘lemon law” automobile/recreational vehicle cases. That is, a consumer, having recurring issues with her vehicle, believes that the alleged repairs by the dealer have not fixed the “problem” and so sues seeking to have the automobile repurchased or replaced. Many times, neither occurs; the manufacturer offers a sum of money which the plaintiff consumer accepts and agrees to keep the vehicle.

 In these mediations, I often feel that there is unequal bargaining power between the plaintiff consumer and the defendant manufacturer. This is especially so when I learn that prior to the mediation, the defendant manufacturer has assessed or evaluated the case, possibly even having conducted a round table discussion about it, and has placed a value on it, setting a monetary sum on how much it is willing to offer in settlement. This occurs more often than not! Through experience, I have learned that very rarely will the defendant manufacturer agree to go much higher than this pre-determined limit; maybe $1,000 but usually not more! Thus, I sometimes feel like I am tilting at windmills!

So, here am I with plaintiff, in a mediation whose result almost feels pre-determined. The defendant manufacturer has a set amount in mind: plaintiff can take it or leave it.

Recently, I read an article on www.mediate.com by Jeffrey Krivis entitled “How Did They Price The File?” which notes that a plaintiff’s situation may not be as bleak as I have painted it. Mr. Krivis suggests that by doing some “prequalification” work, plaintiff or her counsel can greatly improve the situation at mediation. Just as a consumer provides a financial institution with a lot of information in order to prequalify for a loan, Mr. Krivis suggests that prior to the mediation, plaintiff’s counsel should essentially do the same thing: share with defense counsel what are plaintiff’s goals and objectives, how she values the case and why, and otherwise share as much information with the defense as possible to insure that the defendant “prices the file” correctly.

Conversely, Mr. Krivis suggests that the defendant do the same with plaintiff: share information regarding the criteria it uses to value the case; is it standard criteria and/or is it something special about this case that causes certain value to be placed on it?

So that the mediation is successful, Mr. Krivis notes that this informational exchange should occur well prior to the mediation and perhaps even with the help of the mediator in a telephone conference call to discuss objectives and expectations. Or, this information can be exchanged in non-confidential mediation briefs; but again, well in advance of the mediation.

Where necessary, plaintiff should, prior to the mediation, discuss large monetary demands with the defendant so that the defendant has ample time to present it to the upper levels of the organization (i.e. “up the chain the demand”) for discussion and/or approval.

In short, the key is sharing information, goals and objectives with the other party well prior to the mediation. By doing so, a plaintiff will have input on how defendant “prices the file” so that when she walks into a mediation, she will not feel as though the ultimate resolution has been pre-determined by some supervisor at some corporate headquarters somewhere else in the country.

Similarly, I, as a mediator, will neither feel as though my hands are somewhat tied as defendant has already determined how much or little movement it is willing to make, nor that my input will have little weight as the evaluation has already taken place!

. . .Just something to think about!

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PLANNING IS CRITICAL

Wednesday, August 18th, 2010

Each week my friend and colleague Maria Simpson, Ph.D. writes a Two-Minute Training tip. Although her August 10, 2010 topic, “Nine Steps For Successful Negotiations,” allegedly takes three minutes to read; it is well worth the extra minute. In essence, she sets out how to participate in a successful mediation:

“1.      Plan. Most of us plan by figuring out generally what we want, but that’s about it. Other things to consider are:

    • What the other side wants. You can’t make an acceptable offer if you don’t have an idea of what is desired and valued.
    • What you are willing to give up, what “concessions” you can make. List what you want in order of priority and then determine what is lowest on your list. This might be the item you can most easily give up, especially if it is something the other side wants. What has no value to you might be very valuable to someone else.
    • What your high and low boundaries are. What is the least you are willing to accept on a particular issue, and what is the most you are willing to give up on an issue? Even if these boundaries move a bit during the negotiation, having a sense of what they are will help you evaluate demands and offers from the other party.
    • What package you want at the end. How many times have you thought that you would never have agreed to A if you had known what B was going to be? And how many times have you thought you couldn’t renegotiate A now that B was known? Think of the outcome as a package, not as a list of discrete items.

2.      Allow people to tell their stories. Not only does this indicate respect for the other party, but it can provide valuable insight into what is important to the other party and what the basis of the agreement might really be.

3.      Surface the underlying issues. A negotiation is not only about what resources or tangibles will be divided up, but about what drives the need for these resources or tangibles and especially the quantities of these items. “What needs to be divided up,” the stuff being discussed, is the “what” of the negotiation. The underlying issues are the emotional part of the discussion, the why, and indicate what drives people to take the positions they present. Knowing why something is being asked for will help to determine how strong that desire is and how much room for negotiating there is. It might also indicate what else might be introduced into the discussion that might present a new alternative.

4.      Bargain appropriately. Don’t make offers that will automatically be rejected as frivolous or insulting by the other party. The purpose of negotiating is to continue the process until resolution, not to end the discussion, and an insulting offer will end it quickly.

5.      Know when to walk away, but don’t walk out too quickly, either. Sometimes just hanging in there for a little while longer will demonstrate a seriousness of purpose that will move the process along or raise an important but not previously considered position that has to be addressed. On the other hand, staying too long when there is clearly no hope of agreement is a waste of time. Consider carefully what will happen if you leave, and then decide.

6.      Write the agreement. It is always best to have the parties write the agreement jointly, while they are still in the room, rather than to have one party draft it and the other party respond. The party that drafts the agreement has control over the language, and the discussion will become a series of challenges to, and defenses of, the language instead of a discussion of the issues. If possible, have a neutral third party draft the agreement based on conversations with both parties.

7.      Consider the package as a whole. Do the elements balance? Did you get at least much of what you wanted? Is the other party reasonably satisfied or will the agreement fall apart in a few months? Until the agreement is signed, you have time to re-consider. Just be sure that new issues are serious enough that they must be raised even if you think the whole agreement might fall apart.

8.      Stay flexible. Be prepared to change your understanding of the situation and of each party’s needs based on new information, and therefore, to change the elements of the agreement if necessary. New information can provide a new direction and a better agreement.

9.      Be mindful of future relationship issues. Don’t force an agreement that makes the other party resentful and angry. Help them save face, or the agreement won’t last and you will have to go through the process again. It will be more difficult to renegotiate than to negotiate thoughtfully the first time.”

I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to prepare and plan ahead of time. “Winging it” will lead to disaster which, unfortunately, I have seen all too often. The same way that athletes “visualize” what they are about to do, so should a negotiator. Think it through; “visualize” how you want the negotiation or mediation to proceed. Doing so will improve immensely your chances of reaching a resolution.

. . .Just something to think about!

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Rights vs Resolution

Friday, August 13th, 2010

On July 17, 2010, the Southern California Mediation Association (“SCMA”) held its annual Townhall. As president, I had the honor of choosing the topic for discussion. I chose “rights v. resolution”, based on a presentation given by the Honorable Wayne D. Brazil, United States Magistrate Judge in the Northern District of California at the American Bar Association (“ABA”) Dispute Resolution Section’s Conference in New York City in April 2009.

This notion juxtaposes the rights given to litigants in the civil justice system, especially  the Seventh Amendment right to a jury trial with the use of the alternative dispute resolution (“ADR”) process to resolve a dispute. In short, is the mediation community causing litigants to forego their “rights” in court by encouraging (manipulating?) them to “resolve” their disputes at mediation?

Through three different panel discussions, our Townhall focused on this issue from the perspective of the judiciary, the plaintiffs and defense bar and the ADR professional and trainers. Needless to say, the discussion was quite spirited, provoking much comment and thought.

I turn to this topic of “rights v. resolution” because last week, I opened the latest issue of the ABA’s Dispute Resolution Magazine (Vol. 16, No. 4, Summer 2010) to see that Judge Brazil once again addresses this notion in his article, “Rights v. Resolution in Mediation; Our Responsibility To Debate The Reach of our Responsibility.”

According to Judge Brazil (as well as the panelists at our Townhall), this issue – rights v. resolution –

“. . . has taken on considerable added significance with the apparently increasing marginalization of our courts [and] . . .[t]he growing disproportion between transaction costs and case value…. [As a result], . . . many cases of modest economic value and many litigants of limited means have been effectively priced out of the court system. So, more and more people must look to something other than the adjudicatory process to address their problems. ” (Id. at 9).

Indeed, Judge Brazil notes that only the “close ones” i.e. “the ones in which rights are most difficult to determine” are going to trial and that more and more cases in federal court at both the trial and appellate levels are being handled by the actual party, without the assistance of a lawyer. (Id. at 9, 10).

So, given that more and more mediations are occurring, Judge Brazil queries what is the role or responsibility of the neutral in insuring that this “rights v. resolution” tension does not tip more one way than the other?: that is, that outcomes do not overtake legal entitlements? (Id. at 10). Judge Brazil queries what is “the extent of our responsibility for the alignment of outcomes with legal entitlements?” (Id. at 10).

How, can I, as a neutral, insure that this balance is maintained? Especially, when the parties come to mediation unprepared or not knowing all of the facts, and/or not knowing all of evidence. Often times, they have not conducted any discovery so as to contain costs, hoping that an early resolution is available. Or, they come to mediation with the expectation that I, as a neutral, will provide them with guidance on issues that they know more about than I do (even though, it is their case, not mine.) Or, it is a matter in which they have not divulged everything to me and/or opposing counsel and/or is one in which they are attempting to manipulate me and/or the other parties. Or, the matter is one in which one party has much more leverage than the other and thus  the situation makes one party much more vulnerable than the other. Or, it is a matter in which all parties and counsel, except for the plaintiff, are repeat or institutional players going through the motions of a mediation, knowing pretty much what the outcome will be, before the mediation even starts. (Id. at 11). Only the actual plaintiff is a “one-shot” player with no inkling that the mediation and its processes are pretty much scripted out already. In all of these situations, what is my responsibility to insure rights do not overtake resolution or vice versa? (Id. at 10-11).

And then, Judge Brazil points out “the indeterminacy of civil litigation. (Id. at 11). Does the fact that litigation seems to take “forever” to get resolved provide a convenient excuse to end it now at mediation? This notion was especially raised at our Townhall given the fiscal crisis of California’s state courts causing courtrooms to be shuttered, and employees to be either laid off or furloughed. How important is expediency over constitutional rights? Should it even be? (Id. at  12.)

As you might surmise, Judge Brazil concludes that the responsibility of a neutral to insure that resolutions do not overtake rights must be viewed on a mediation to mediation basis.  Even the same neutral must take a different approach to this issue from one mediation to the next, depending on the parties, the subject matter and the type of dispute. Is it a civil case? A family law matter? A class action? Are the parties sophisticated? Institutional or repeat players? Or, the opposite? Is the ADR process private? Or court-ordered? Is it mediation? Arbitration? Early Neutral evaluation? Et cetera. All of these issues and more must be considered by the neutral in her attempt to insure that the proper tension between rights and resolution is maintained. (Id.)

In sum, there seems to be a lot more to being a mediator than just mediating. While I am very much interested in having parties settle their cases, I must be mindful that settlement is not the end all, be all, or the sole and only goal in mediation; resolution cannot be achieved at the expense of litigants’ “rights” under our system of jurisprudence. And, as hard as I try, I am not always sure where the line exists between these two notions in any given mediation. It is a difficult task to find this balance  and insure that it is maintained but I will keep looking. . .!

. . .Just something to think about.

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THE MAGIC WORDS: FEEL, FELT, FOUND

Friday, July 23rd, 2010

Earlier this month, my colleague Linda Bulmash published her July 2010 edition of Negotiation Tips for the Los Angeles County Bar Association (volume III, No 10, July 2010). Entitled “Avoid Confrontational Language”, Ms. Bulmash discusses what a mediator learns early on in her training courses: watch the words you use; be non-confrontational in your active listening and reframing.

To convey this notion of being able to disagree without being confrontational, Ms. Bulmash points to Roger Dawson’s formula: “Feel, Felt, Found”:

“Take a phrase we often hear in legal negotiations and mediations: “That is a ridiculous and insulting offer.” Armed with Dawson’s “feel, felt, found” formula, you can respond as follows:

“1. FEEL: “Please help me understand why you feel that way.” Or “I understand how you would feel that way.” “

“2. FELT: “I have been in your position and have often felt that way too.” “

“3. FOUND: “And, what I have found is that taking a step back to listen to what the other side has to say about why this is so insulting, often opens the door to other possibilities that might satisfy your interests.” “

That is, do not argue; instead, agree with the other party but spin it in such a way that will benefit you.

In my  mediation practice, I conscientiously avoid confrontational language. This formula will lighten my task. It is an easy one to remember and to put into practice. And I know by doing so, I will get a lot more agreement. As they say: “you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar”.

. . .Just something to think about!

P.S. I am taking a week off . . . to Alaska. My next blog will be on August 6, 2010. See ya then!

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INSTRUMENTAL EMOTIONS

Friday, July 9th, 2010

Benedict Carey has written another interesting article in the New York Times. Entitled “The Benefits of Blowing Your Top” (July 6, 2010),  Mr. Carey discusses the effect that our emotions have on disputes.

For example, some people, such as President Obama, deal with a crisis in a very calm, cool manner which exasperates others. In contrast, other people simply and quickly blow-up at the first hint of a dispute.

This emerging field is called “emotion regulation” and looks at how we function in social situations:

“. . .Research in the past few years has found that people develop a variety of psychological tools to manage what they express in social situations, and those techniques often become subconscious, affecting interactions in unintended ways. The better that people understand their own patterns, the more likely they are to see why some emotionally charged interactions go awry – whether from too little control, or in the President’s case, perhaps too much.” (Id.)

Emotion regulation falls into two categories: “pre-emptive, occurring before an emotion is fully felt” and then “responsive” which occurs afterward. An example of the latter is feeling an emotion but, immediately, suppressing it. Two different studies showed that those who suppress their emotions encounter more stressful situations. One of the studies revealed that incoming college freshmen who “. . .scored highest on measures of emotional suppression had the hardest time making friends.” (Id.)  An often-used pre-emptive technique is to simply focus on the good and ignore the bad. One study found that:

“. . .people over 55 were much more likely than those aged 25 and under to focus on positive images when in a bad mood – thereby buoying their spirits. The younger group was more likely to focus on negative images when feeling angry or down.” (Id.)

Another study found that older persons were more adept at regulating their emotions; their mood would bounce back quickly to a good one after dealing with depressing thoughts. Consequently, the senior citizen’s ability to shrug off feelings of disgust or outrage may “strike younger people as unauthentic, even callous.” (Id.)

Lastly, but of most interest to me as a mediator, Mr. Carey points out that “people may choose the emotions they feel far more often than they are aware – and those choices, too, can trip up social interactions.” (Id.) That is, “. . .people subconsciously prime themselves to feel emotions they believe will be most useful to them in an anticipated situation.” (Id.) Such emotions are called “instrumental emotions.”

People have “an exceptional capacity to track whether the timing and morphology of an emotion is correct.” (Id.) Thus, the most socially adept individuals are able to project the emotions they want to, when they want to, using varied strategies to fit the situation at hand. (Id.) Thus, a good negotiator will display anger when appropriate and conciliation when that, too, is appropriate.

Disputes are full of emotions; in their creation and in their resolution. While most of  us dwell on the “facts” and who is “right” and who is “wrong” in our attempt to resolve a dispute, we must also focus on the “instrumental emotions” of the dispute. The use of the wrong emotion at the wrong time can cause the whole situation to blow up, or be “misread”. (Just think of the public’s reaction to Mr. Obama’s unemotional response to the BP spill: the critics urged he did not care because he did not get angry.)

So, while the substance of a dispute is important, so are the “instrumental emotions”  we bring to the negotiations: we must pause and give thought of how to present them. What emotions do we really want to display when?  Are they  in sync with the situation? With  our body language?  And, with what we are saying? Are  our emotions aligned with our underlying needs and interests? Or our they sabotaging them and thereby making the situation worse?

In truth, there is a lot more to think about than simply the “facts’ in any negotiation!

. . .Just something to think about.

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