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Mediations: Thinking outside the Box

Recently, I conducted three mediations almost simultaneously. While I have conducted two mediations somewhat at the same time because the first one did not conclude before the second one was scheduled to start (and I do not like to keep people waiting!), this was a first for me.

No doubt, one's initial reaction is that it is a crazy thing to undertake and how much true mediation could there be? In reality, it worked out well; and, believe it or not, there was some true mediation in it, and all three matters settled.

It seems that the same plaintiff attorney and same defendant manufacturer's attorney had three "lemon law" cases that they wanted to mediate together and so arranged with each other and my office for a half day of time in which only the attorneys and I would be present. The actual plaintiffs and the manufacturer's representative would be available by telephone.

I can hear other mediators mumbling under their respective (or collective?) breaths- that such a set up would never work. But, somehow it did.

In one sense, with only the attorneys and me present, it was not a true mediation but in another sense it really was. Because both attorneys were well seasoned and knew both each other and me, we skipped the "dancing" to a large degree. After about one round of proposal and counter proposal on each case, we cut to the chase. We depended heavily on the relationships we had with each other and the trust that we had built up with each other through previous mediations. We also had a lot of joint sessions in which I asked harder questions than I would have if the plaintiffs were present and got more candid responses as well. There was not much posturing as there was no one - either a plaintiff or a representative- for whom to put on a show. And, I was also on the telephone with each plaintiff discussing the various issues with them, at plaintiff's counsel's request.

There was more flexibility in that the defendant's representative-fully aware that three matters were being decided at once, agreed to allocate and re-allocate cash offers among the three as was necessary. Thus, when plaintiffs in the first case demanded slightly more than defendant's representative was willing to pay on that particular case, defense counsel came up with an "outside of the box" suggestion by requesting that we hold the settlement of that one in abeyance and go to the second because there was a possibility that the difference (i.e., the amount sought by plaintiffs in the first matter) could be made up in the second case. ...And defense counsel was correct; the parties settled that second case for slightly more than originally thought allowing defense counsel to allocate (with the manufacturer's representative's knowledge and approval) a little of it towards the first matter, thereby settling both cases.

Having now settled two cases, defense counsel used this momentum (if not success rate) to convince the representative to meet plaintiff's demand in the third case which was slightly more than originally authorized. By this time in the mediation process, we were meeting in joint sessions with candid discussions of the approximate ranges or amounts being sought and of the amounts being offered. Very little "dancing" was being done! Again, I spoke with plaintiffs directly by telephone with counsel present to discuss the strengths and weaknesses of the case. We settled the third case, too. It was quite a productive day.

On reflection, I must say that I did not handle these mediations the way I was taught; it was rather unorthodox. But, it worked and I believe each plaintiff was content with the result. And... in the end... I guess that it all that counts.

.... Just something to think about.

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How Not To Mediate: An Actual Mediation

I conducted a mediation recently that had all of the ingredients for failure (as discussed in last week's blog) from the very start. It was a wage and hour case in which the plaintiff claimed, among other things, that she worked long hours for which she was not adequately paid, was not allowed to take meal breaks or rest breaks, and did not receive a pay stub each week itemizing her wages.

While I received a mediation brief from the plaintiff's attorney, I did not receive one from the employer's counsel. Thus, going into the mediation, I had only one side of the story which appeared to be a straight forward question of an employee working long hours and not getting paid the amounts required by the statutes.

The first thing that happened is that I noticed when the plaintiff came in, her attorney who was already here, introduced herself implying that this was the first time they were meeting. To me, this indicated the absence of any sort of relationship upon which to build trust. The plaintiff had no reason to trust her attorney whom she had never met before.

The second thing is that I spoke with the defense attorney who gave me a completely different story; plaintiff was an occasional day laborer who worked every so often for defendant and nowhere near the long hours or days she claimed. In fact, defendant's hours of operation totaled less than the hours plaintiff claimed she worked each week. This completely different story caused me to rethink my approach and strategy very quickly.

The third thing that happened is that when I walked into the room occupied by plaintiff and her attorney, I learned that plaintiff spoke no English and her attorney spoke no Spanish. There was no interpreter present and the only way that either counsel or I could speak with plaintiff was for counsel to call her office on her mobile phone and have one of her staff interpret. (At this moment, I knew this was going nowhere fast but being a persistent soul I hoped for the best and marshaled on.)

Since I could not converse with the plaintiff, I decided to speak to the attorneys to have a discussion of the issues. At that point, I realized that the plaintiff's attorney was a young attorney appearing with pre-ordained marching orders, having no control over her client or the matter. In response to the version of the facts as laid out by defense counsel, plaintiff's counsel remained resolute in her position, even when told that plaintiff was claiming to work more hours than the business was open during the week.

Plaintiff's first demand was scripted; it was the amount demanded in the complaint, as though no frank discussion of the issues or facts had been held. While counsel indicated that she previously spoke with her client about the version proffered by defense counsel, that conversation could not have been meaningful due to the language barrier and the lack of any relationship between them.

Defendant responded with a minimal amount to which plaintiff responded with a still quite high demand, advising that her client denied everything the defendant was saying. It was clear that plaintiff's counsel, being a young attorney, did not have the healthy skepticism that comes with experience to listen to her client critically and judge for herself whether what plaintiff was saying was credible. Rather, to her thinking, plaintiff was her client and she had to accept what she said without question.

In an effort to try to break the impasse, I suggested a joint session. While defendant and its counsel agreed, plaintiff's counsel agreed but plaintiff refused. Again, plaintiff's counsel took the "no" at face value, not seeking to talk to plaintiff privately to find out why and/or try to persuade her to meet jointly.

Rather, plaintiff counsel met with defendant and counsel, and we discussed the issues. Without plaintiff present, there could be no candid discussion. At the conclusion, plaintiff's counsel realized she had more discovery to do and perhaps the case was not really positioned to settle; the mediation ended.

There are several morals here. First, communicate with your client prior to the mediation so that a relationship of trust can be created. Prepare your client for mediation by discussing the strengths and weaknesses of the case and the various alternatives available. Second, communicate with opposing counsel prior to the mediation and have a frank discussion of the issues so that the mediation is not full of surprises for which there is no time to verify or conduct due diligence. While plaintiff's counsel indicated that she had been told of the employer's position beforehand, it appeared that she did not do any investigation other than ask her client who denied it. Third, if there is a language issue, be sure to bring an interpreter to the mediation so that communication in its simplest form can occur. To depend on whoever is available back in the office to interpret is "winging it" which spells disaster.

Fourth, do not simply be a warm body showing up at the mediation. Be prepared to negotiate and have frank discussions with the other party and the mediator as well as with your client. While an attorney is supposed to be a zealous advocate for her client, she is not required to believe everything her client tells her; she must use a critical eye and ear and judge her client's credibility as that is what a judge and/or jury will be doing. If what her client is saying is not credible, it is better for the client to hear it at mediation within the confines of confidentiality than at a public trial from a judge or jury.

Fifth, be sure the case is ready for mediation. While mediating early is recommended to save time and the expense of litigation, if the parties have not conducted the necessary fact investigation and/or discovery, then it is meaningless as parties will not settle cases when there are too many unknowns existing. In this mediation, the plaintiff's version of the truth was quite divergent from the defendant's and nothing had been done to try to corroborate one or the other. Thus, the case could not be settled, because if one believed plaintiff, she was owed quite a lot of money, but if one believed defendant, plaintiff was trying to take advantage of a generous, kind-hearted employer (aka "no good deed goes unpunished").

I do not know what will happen here... discovery no doubt will indicate which party has the "truth" on its side.....

.... Just something to think about.

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Elements of an Unsuccessful Negotiation Strategy

Negotiation strategy and legal malpractice claims have much in common.  This point struck me as I read  an article in the California state e-bar journal dated May 2, 2013, listing ten items that can lead to a legal malpractice claim. Looking through them, I realized that many of them will also lead to an unsuccessful negotiation, if not poor negotiation strategy. 

The ten items include; "...Missing filing deadlines; ...Failing to recognize substance abuse or stress; ...Poor client communication;... Ineffective client screening; ...Failing to understand the law; ...Conflicts of interest;... Inappropriate involvement with a client, such as becoming an investor or creditor;... Failing to document legal work; ...Suing a client to collect a fee; [and]... Failing to identify someone as a client" (http://www.calbarjournal.com/May2013/TopHeadlines/TH2.aspx)

Missing any sort of deadline in a lawsuit will not start the mediation off well. Many times I have had counsel complain to me that it is difficult for her to negotiate on behalf of her client because the other party has not responded to discovery and thus, she does not have the information needed to counsel her client on settlement. Generally, people need information with which to make decisions; without it, they are extremely uncomfortable about settling.

Substance abuse or stress- either in a party or in counsel- will also lead to a bad outcome in negotiations. While I have not knowingly witnessed someone trying to negotiate while under the influence, I have witnessed parties attempting to do so while under stress. As a myriad of studies have indicated, stress blocks one's ability to think rationally; instead, it evokes the "fight or flight" response which is not at all helpful in trying to resolve an issue, peacefully.

Poor client communications is one of the top reasons why matters do not resolve. A good negotiator will prepare for the mediation beforehand by discussing the strengths and weaknesses of the matter with her client, preparing her client for all of the different possible outcomes, and providing the necessary reality check. Poor client communications leads to "winging it" at mediation, which, as we all know, is not a good thing and does not lead to good outcomes. It is simply not a good negotiation strategy.

The next point -ineffective client screening- is an outgrowth of poor client communications. If one does not talk with her client extensively, then one does not really get to know her client, what personality traits may be at issue and what "hot buttons" the client may have. Again, without this knowledge- one is "winging it" at the mediation and emotions may override rationality such that someone storms out of the mediation.

The next two- conflicts of interest and inappropriate involvement with the client - are closely related. The most obvious conflict that I often see- has to do with attorneys' fees. Typically, plaintiff's counsel has taken the matter on a contingency or on the condition that the defendant pays plaintiff's attorneys' fees. Thus, at mediation, the attorneys' fees may impede the ability to settle the case. At times, the defendant has offered enough money to satisfy plaintiff's demands but not enough to pay counsel's fees. Settling the matter then becomes difficult and problematic.

Similarly, the attorney may have some other interest in the case so that she cannot be totally objective at mediation; while she is looking out for her client, she is also looking out for her own interests. It may end up that while the client is willing to settle, the attorney is not, out of her own interests not being satisfied.

The last one on the list is failing to identify someone as a client. This reminds me of not having all of the necessary parties at mediation. For example, in my lemon law mediations, the driver of the vehicle may be present but not the registered owner, or vice versa. I had a mediation the other day in which the surety (believing it had settled with plaintiff) was absent from the mediation, only to be brought back in by telephone since its participation was still crucial to the overall settlement. Obviously, it is imperative to figure out whose presence at mediation is crucial to its success and to make sure that the crucial person is present.

So... just as there are many traps for possible legal malpractice claims, these same traps can dictate the success or failure of mediation.

... Just something to think about.

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The Arbitration Fairness Act of 2013

While my alternative dispute resolution focus is generally on mediation, a recent event in the arbitration field caught my attention. On May 7, 2013, Senator Al Franken (MN) introduced S. 878 (http://www.gpo.gov/fdsys/pkg/BILLS-113s878is/pdf/BILLS-113s878is.pdf ) in the Senate while his counterpart Rep. Henry C. "Hank" Johnson, Jr. (Ga-4) introduced H. R. 1844 in the House.(http://thomas.loc.gov/cgi-bin/query/C?c113:./temp/~c1130E0u38) (These identical bills are entitled, The Arbitration Fairness Act of 2013 and are aimed at eliminating mandatory pre-dispute arbitration clauses in employment, consumer, antitrust and civil rights matters so that such individuals are truly free to decide to engage in arbitration if they so desire and only once an actual dispute arises.

Why is this important? On April 27, 2011, the U.S. Supreme Court issued its opinion in AT & T Mobility, LLC vs. Concepcion, 131 S. Ct. 1740 (2011)(http://www.supremecourt.gov/opinions/10pdf/09-893.pdf)  in which Plaintiffs Vincent and Liz Concepcion purchased cellular telephone service from AT & T Mobility, LLC. The contract provided that all disputes were to be decided by arbitration on an individual basis; class wide arbitrations were prohibited.

Naturally, a dispute arose over a $30.22 charge; AT &T advertised a free telephone with the purchase of its service but did not state that it would have to charge the sales tax of $30.22 based on the retail value of the "free" telephone. So, plaintiffs objected to the charge and sued AT &T in federal court. Their lawsuit was later converted into a putative class action, alleging false advertising and fraud. AT &T moved to compel arbitration pursuant to its contract with the plaintiffs. The US District Court denied the motion, and the Ninth Circuit affirmed.

The U. S. Supreme Court reversed, holding that under the Federal Arbitration Act, 9U.S.C.§ 1(http://www.ilr.cornell.edu/alliance/resources/Legal/federal_arbitration_act.html) such contract provisions were valid and that such provisions could prohibit class actions meaning potential plaintiffs must pursue arbitration in their individual capacities only.

One can imagine the impact this ruling has had since its issuance two years ago. All large companies can now compel consumers to file individual arbitration claims to pursue their rights. But, if the claim is like that of the Concepcions'- $30.22- who is going to pursue it and as importantly, what attorney will even handle it?

To change this state of affairs, Sen. Franken and Rep. Johnson have re introduced their respective bills (Earlier versions were introduced in 2012). The Findings in each bill are the same:

SEC. 2. FINDINGS.

The Congress finds the following:

(1) The Federal Arbitration Act (now enacted as chapter 1 of title 9 of the United States Code) was intended to apply to disputes between commercial entities of generally similar sophistication and bargaining power.

(2) A series of decisions by the Supreme Court of the United States have interpreted the Act so that it now extends to consumer disputes and employment disputes, contrary to the intent of Congress.

(3) Most consumers and employees have little or no meaningful choice whether to submit their claims to arbitration. Often, consumers and employees are not even aware that they have given up their rights.

(4) Mandatory arbitration undermines the development of public law because there is inadequate transparency and inadequate judicial review of arbitrators' decisions.

(5) Arbitration can be an acceptable alternative when consent to the arbitration is truly voluntary, and occurs after the dispute arises.

Thus, the purpose of these bills is to prohibit mandatory arbitration in consumer, civil rights, anti-trust and employment matters before the dispute arises. As proposed Section 402 states:'(a) - Notwithstanding any other provision of this title, no predispute arbitration agreement shall be valid or enforceable if it requires arbitration of an employment dispute, consumer dispute, antitrust dispute, or civil rights dispute.... "Thus, no longer could AT &T in its cellular telephone service contracts require a consumer to agree to arbitration should a dispute arise, long before the dispute even arises.

These two bills have been referred to the respective Senate and House Committee on the Judiciary. Whether they will get out of committee or remain there as did their predecessors is anyone's guess. But, I think it is an important development of which we should all be aware.

..... Just something to think about.

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The Subtly of Actual Mediations

Most folks think that the purpose of mediation is to settle cases. However, in the last few weeks, I have conducted some actual mediations that were "successful" yet did not settle. Although the parties came to mediation with the goal of settling, they walked out accomplishing other purposes.

There are many secondary goals or reasons for using mediation. One is to narrow or focus on the issues in the case. For example, I conducted a lemon law mediation recently in which the plaintiff purchased the vehicle out of state and had it registered in another state as well. However, plaintiff lived, worked and drove the vehicle in California. In actuality, the vehicle was registered in the name of a corporation which as it turns out, no longer existed. Recognizing that California's Song Beverly Consumer Warranty Act would not apply, plaintiff sued under the federal Magnuson -Moss Act. However, issues of law remained; which state's law would apply under the federal statute? Does the corporation which no longer exists even have the right to sue? Is the whole claim barred by a statute of limitations using which state's law? Et Cetera. While defense counsel had given much thought to these thorny issues, it appeared that plaintiff's counsel had not. Thus, when defense counsel raised these thorny issues with plaintiff's counsel, plaintiff's counsel realized she had much research to do to determine these and other issues. So, while the case did not settle, it helped the parties focus on the myriad of legal issues in the case, and most certainly bring them to the forefront of plaintiff's counsel attention.

Another reason for mediation is to help counsel evaluate how parties will appear as witnesses. In a recent lemon law mediation, plaintiff complained of the vehicle surging or sudden acceleration. The defendant manufacturer could not duplicate it and so was unwilling to repurchase the vehicle. During the mediation, the parties held a joint session, allowing the defense counsel to listen to the plaintiffs and determine their likability by a jury. The plaintiffs appeared extremely sincere and credible and those that a jury would believe and like. Again, the matter did not settle at mediation. However, defense counsel reported back to her client that the plaintiffs would make extremely good witnesses; as a result, she was able to get the authority needed to settle the matter. The case just settled.

A third reason for attending mediation is to have reality checks; to convince one or both parties to become more realistic; to lower their expectations of what will happen at trial. In a recent mediation, plaintiff was representing herself. She was a homeowner in a HOA [Home Owners Assoication] who had not paid the association fees. As a result, the association had foreclosed and now held title to the condo. When the HOA moved to evict the homeowner, she sued to stop the eviction. Although she had initially been represented by an attorney, she was now representing herself. During the mediation, a joint session was held to understand exactly what it was that plaintiff wanted and also to explain to plaintiff that despite what her lender was saying, she did not own the condo; the HOA did. Defense counsel patiently explained to her how she would file a motion for summary judgment that, in all likelihood, would be granted, and plaintiff would lose and forfeit the equity that she had in the condo. Rather than pursue this hard course of action, defense counsel stated she wanted to work with plaintiff to resolve the matter in a way that was palatable to all concerned. While the matter did not settle, the reality check was certainly given.

A fourth reason that mediation is helpful when a matter does not settle is to provide multiple defendants an opportunity to be in the same room at the same time to discuss a united approach to plaintiff's demands. In a recent mediation involving the sale of a used car to plaintiff that, in fact, had a salvage title, unbeknownst to plaintiff, the parties had agreed that the vehicle should be repurchased as it was clear that one cannot sell a vehicle with a salvage title without full disclosure. Plaintiff was unable to register the vehicle. The issue between the defendant and cross- defendant was how to spread the liability; which defendant would bear what proportion of the expense to repurchase the vehicle and her attorneys' fees? Being in the same room at the same time provided these two parties with the opportunity to share information and to piece together a story of what had happened. The vehicle had been in an accident, the insurer had totaled it but somehow this did not get reported prior to the sale to plaintiff. However, by sharing documents and discussing the facts, the two parties made much progress in determining what had happened; no doubt, the case will settle in the next few weeks.

The above actual mediations also reveal other reasons for mediating; to disclose "bombshell" information and/or to filter and diffuse harmful information as occurred in the mediation involving the defunct corporation with the vehicle registered and bought outside of California; to obtain discovery informally as occurred in the surging vehicle mediation by counsel informally meeting and talking with plaintiffs, and to discuss creative proposals as occurred in the HOA mediation.

So- while these matters did not settle at mediation, I truly believe that the mediation definitely helped moved each of these matters towards an eventual resolution.

(For a more complete discussion, see, Cooley, John W., The Mediator's Handbook (2d. ed. National Institute for Trial Advocacy, 2006) at chapter 1.1.3 at pages 12-20.)

Just something to think about....!

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The Future is Closer Than We Realize

In its April 5, 2013 edition, The Economist had an interesting article in its Science and Technology section about how we judge time. Entitled "Yesterday Came Suddenly", it discusses a study to be published in Psychological Science indicating that we view the future as being closer than the past. Calling it the "Temporal Doppler Effect", the researchers, Eugene M. Caruso of the University of Chicago, Leaf Van Boven of the University of Colorado at Boulder, and Mark Chin and Andrew Ward of Swarthmore College conducted a series of experiments showing that we have different temporal views of time. Their four different studies showed "....a systematic asymmetry whereby future events are psychologically closer than past events of equivalent objective distance." (Id. at 2.)

Specifically, in one experiment, the researchers asked participants to report the psychological distance to the same specific time, (e.g. one month, 1 year) at objectively equal distances in either the past or the future. In short, they were asked whether one month in the future from today seemed closer or further in time than one month in the past from today. The participants reported that "... a month in the future was closer than a month in the past". Similarly, the participants reported that one year in the future was closer than one year in the past. (Id. at 7.) That is, subjectively, people view future events as being closer in time than past events even though the two points in time may be objectively equidistant.

The researchers found this to be true with events as well. Three hundred and twenty three participants were asked to determine the relative closeness of Valentine's time; some were asked 8 days before Valentine's Day while others were asked 7 days after it occurred. Again, the participants reported "...that Valentine's Day was psychologically closer one week before it happened than one week after it happened." (Id. at 7-8).

Finally, the researchers wanted to find out if a person's physical movement - backward or forward- affected their psychological view of the future versus the past. Using virtual reality headgear, some of the participants were made to feel as though they were physically moving backward while others were made to feel as though they were physically moving forward. They were then asked questions about how far in the past or in the future were certain events.

The researchers found that the physical sensation of moving forward or backward did have some effect on the participants' perception of time. "When moving forward, participants reported the future closer than the past.... When moving backward, in contrast, participants reported that the future was somewhat more psychologically distant than the past...." (Id. at 9-10.)

Indeed, other studies have found that "...[p]eople tend to lean their bodies backward when thinking about the past whereas they lean their bodies forward when thinking about the future. " (Id. at 4).

In sum, the researchers concluded:

"We believe that the temporal Doppler effect in psychological distance reflects a broad "bias toward the future" whereby people are psychologically oriented toward the future more than the past.... This future orientation is highly functional, as future events can typically be acted upon more successfully than past events... Thus, representing future events as psychologically close may better prepare individuals to approach, avoid, or otherwise cope with future events. For example, psychologically close events tend to arouse more concrete action plans than distant events... People who feel close to an upcoming test are more motivated to prepare and perform well...." (Id. at 14.)

As the researchers conclude, since we are more emotionally oriented to the future than to the past, we tend to place higher value on the future than the past and to "... judge moral transgressions more harshly in prospect than in retrospect." (Id.)

So, if the future is emotionally and psychologically closer to us than the past, how does this effect negotiations and mediation? Impliedly, it appears to be more beneficial to focus on the future and not on the past or on the events leading to the dispute. As people are more tied to the future, invoke their imaginations about what the future will look like if the matter is resolved, if not resolved, what it will take to prepare for trial, what depositions and other work much be done before trial et. cetera. As this study indicates that the past events and history of the dispute are psychologically and emotionally very distant to most people, focusing the parties on the past will not lead to resolution. Focusing them on the future and the work to be done to prepare adequately for future events will more likely lead to resolution! Or, as The Economist, concludes: "Talking of future plans may be more effective than boasting about past successes."

... Just something to think about!

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Effective Negotiations

I came across a 2009 blog the other day written by Anthony K. Tjan for the Harvard Business Review. It contains 4 simple rules for effective negotiations; reading through them- I found them to be old friends; rules that I have discussed before in my blogs:

•1. Be prepared. Mr. Tjan suggests that each party does her homework before the negotiations even begin by evaluating not only her own needs and interests but those of each other party as well. Look at the issues from the other person's perspective- you will be amazed at what you see; it is truly an "ah hah" moment.

•2. Negotiating against yourself. During the negotiation, do not negotiate against yourself. Do not give in on your initial points too easily or too early in the process. Often times, a party does not have all of the information needed during the early stages of mediation and learns things as the process proceeds. Such new information causes a change in position. So... wait until you learn new information before conceding points.

•3. Impasse. In almost all of my mediations, there comes a point when neither party is willing to move any further aka impasse. DO NOT GIVE UP. Rather, take a few moments, take a break and think "outside of the box"; think about other things and whether there is something tangentially related that may add value. For example, if the parties are stuck at two very different monetary values, perhaps there is something of a non monetary nature that will add value. In my "lemon law" cases, it may be including an extended service contract or a "supervised" repair that may get the parties over the hump of impasse.

•4. Closing the deal. Mr. Tjan offers some excellent advice: never be the party to be the one that walks away from the deal; let the other party make that move. So many times, I have had one party tell me that "X" is the last and final demand while the other party tells me that "Y" is her last and final offer. I tell one party to sit tight while I go talk to the other party and lo and behold, the other party is willing to move a little and, in response, the first party is willing to move a little bit as well... and before I know it, the parties have a deal. Neither the offer nor the demand was truly the "last and final." Patience is the key as well as not being the one to walk away. By playing "chicken", you may just end up with a deal!

I know I may sound like a broken record as I have discussed each of these points several times before- but they are invaluable and make the difference between resolving a dispute and continuing the acrimony.

.... Just something to think about.

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Negotiating Rationally

A friend of mine is in a business partnership. I will call her "Jane". Over the past few months, Jane has continuously expressed to me her frustration and dissatisfaction with her partners, as it seems that they do not care much for the business aspect of running a partnership. They are slow to bill the clients and even slower to collect the money. The fact that monthly expenses exist and must be paid do not seem of much concern to them.

After hearing this same story more than once, I suggested to Jane that she get a "divorce"; she ends the partnership. She responds that she hesitates to do so due to other factors. So, the story continues to be retold many more times until finally, the other partners do things that equate to the "straw that breaks the camel's back."

So, Jane decided then and there to end the partnership, announcing to the partners that the partnership was dissolved, effective immediately. Only afterwards, did Jane start thinking about what comes next and what exactly are the consequences of what she just told her partners. UGH!

I relay this tale because it exemplifies how not to negotiate. Only after she announced the dissolution to her partners but not before- did Jane bother to pull out the partnership agreement to determine what she could and could not do pursuant to the agreement. Even then, she barely read it. While she has agreed to meet with her now former partners to discuss the future, she has done no homework, and no research on her options. Rather, she plans to simply "wing it", using her gut and intuition to figure out how to reach her not so clearly defined goals.

In an April 16, 2013 blog post on the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School website, the blogger discusses that each of us uses two different systems of thought: System 1 is our "intuition: quick, automatic, effortless and influenced by emotion" whereas System 2 thought "... is slower, more conscious, effortful and logical." (http://www.pon.harvard.edu/daily/negotiation-skills-daily/strategies-for-negotiating-more-rationally/print/). So, when one acts purely on intuition, one is using System 1 thought whereas if one carefully evaluates a situation and makes a decision based on thinking it through, one is using System 2 thought. So, while one may use System 1 to decide where to go for lunch, one should be using System 2 to decide whether to take a job offer, or in Jane's case, whether to dissolve a partnership.

The blog points out that Jane is typical; most people use System 1 rather than System 2 thought during negotiations because they feel cognitively overloaded, and to think slowly and carefully takes time which is precious these days. However, they make a big mistake by using intuition rather than logical thought. People like Jane, negotiating important issues, must make the time to think through the issues and allow for sufficient time to negotiate all of the issues. If the negotiations must be in multiple sessions over a number of days or weeks, then so be it. By rushing into negotiations and rushing through the negotiations, much will be missed, mistakes will be made and much will be "left on the table".

Only with adequate preparation and giving sufficient time to negotiate, can one negotiate rationally. Further, the blogger suggests that in preparing for such negotiations, one looks at the issues with both "an insider lens" and "an outsider lens":

•o A negotiator typically uses an insider lens for making judgments when deeply immersed in a particular context or situation; the insider lens relies on intuitive System 1 thinking.

•o By contrast, the typical negotiator adopts an outsider lens when removed or detached from a particular situation; the outsider lens uses rational System 2 thinking.(Id.)

Finally, the blogger notes that most of us have an "overconfidence bias" in that we are overly confident about our "... odds of success despite being proven wrong in the past. In other words, most of us fail to learn from experience." (Id.)

So-the moral of my tale: when facing serious negotiations (i.e., something more than where to have lunch) - don't wing it and depend on your System 1 intuition; rather make the time to prepare, reflect, think about the consequences of your actions and your alternatives. Only by using System 2 thinking will you be fully prepared!

.... Just something to think about!

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The Winner's Curse

Suppose you have a jar of coins and ask several friends to bid on the jar. The highest bid will be deemed the winner. According to Richard H. Thaler ( "Anomalies: The Winner's Curse published inThe Journal of Economic Perspectives ( Volume 2, Issue 1)(Winter 1988) at pp. 191-202), (Thaler ) two results will occur: "(1) the average bid will be significantly less than the value of the coins (bidders are risk adverse); (2) the winning bid will exceed the value of the jar". This is known as the "winner's curse". (Id. at 192.)

The concept of the winner's curse was first written about by three Atlantic Richfield engineers, Capen, Clapp and Campbell (1971) in connection with the purchase of oil drilling rights on particular parcels of land. The rights were auctioned off. Given the fact that it was difficult to estimate exactly how much oil was in a given location, the bids ranged from very high to very low. But, what often occurred is that the "winner" was most likely a "loser". It was "cursed" in one of two ways: "(1) the winning bid exceed[ed] the value of the tract, so the firm [lost] money; or (2) the value of the tract [was] less than the expert's estimate so the winning firm is disappointed." (Id. at 192.)

This concept while often applied to auctions may occur in any type of negotiation in which it is possible to "overbid". One example is the purchase of a used automobile. Most potential buyers approach a used car with skepticism and use the apt strategy of under bidding: their intuition tells them to bid low and to be ready to walk away because chances are the seller knows more than they do about the vehicle. Otherwise, it would not be for sale "at such a great price"! ("Identifying the Winner's Curse in Negotiation ", Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School, March 5, 2013 blog)(http://www.pon.harvard.edu/daily/negotiation-skills-daily/identifying-the-winners-curse-in-negotiation/)

This is precisely the strategy recommended for thwarting the "winner's curse: assume you have overestimated the price and lower your bid from your original bid. If your original bid was, indeed, too much, your lowered bid will actually, then, be more in line with the true value of the item. ("The Bidding Game", Beyond Discovery at p.6).

As the Harvard Negotiation blog points out, the winner's curse occurs because; "... your gains depends on the other side's acceptance; and the other side knows more than you do." (Id.). That is, while it is best to offer zero or close to it, most people will offer much more (i.e., over estimate) since winning depends on the acceptance of the bid by others. Further, more often than not, the seller is better informed than you, the buyer, about the commodity being offered. Typically, when you bid on an item you know little about, you become even more uncertain. And just as typically, your bid will be accepted only when it exceeds the value of the commodity at issue. That is, you have over bargained and over paid due to a lack of knowledge of the true value of the item! ("Identifying the Winner's Curse in Negotiation" at 1.).

So, the morale is to be skeptical. When bidding on the unknown, under estimate the value and do not get caught up in the bidding frenzy!

.... Just something to think about!

Are Women Less Selfish?

The February 26, 2013 blog post of the Program on Negotiation at Harvard Law School looked at what role gender plays in the "dictator game". In "The Dictator Game: Justifying Selfishness In Negotiation", the author reviews a recent study on selfishness in negotiation by Fei Song of York University and C. Brian Cadsby and Tristan Morris of the University of Guelph. (http://www.pon.harvard.edu/daily/meeting-facilitation-daily/the-dictator-game-justifying-selfishness-in-negotiation/ ) In their study, participants played the "dictator game" in which "...Party A is given a sum of money to allocate between himself and Party B. Because Party B has no power, Party A's allocation goes into effect without debate. The dictator game captures the essence of negotiations in contexts with an extreme power differential." (Id.)

The researchers compared the results of the game when played by a single player as Party A versus those playing as part of a two person team. They also compared how males and females played in the role of Party A. They found that male players were "significantly more selfish when they represented a team..." than when acting alone while female players were "... less influenced by whether they represented only themselves or a ... team." (Id.).

Earlier research had also concluded that "... negotiators are more selfish when they can attribute selfish behavior to their group rather than to themselves." (Id.) Thus, one might read in the news that a federal judge is retiring from the bench to go into private practice to put his children through private college. In essence, the judge is retiring to make more money in private practice but won't say so; she prefers to attribute the job change to her family's needs.

The researchers also raised the notion that female negotiators "...are less influenced by the social context of representing a group...." (Id.) That is, when they start to reference a family, or other group, they may be gearing up to claim more than their fair share of the distribution. ( Id.)

Whether one is negotiating in her own behalf or on behalf of a group, makes a difference and will definitely, affect, the ultimate share of the distribution that each party receives.

So... the dictator game is definitely worth remembering the next time you negotiate anything.

..... Just something to think about.

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